29 Nov 2024

🎙️  Des Penny

Changing the stories, you tell yourself!

In this episode of the “Let’s Go – Let’s Grow” podcast, Des Penny shares a deeply personal journey of self-reflection and renewal. At 70 years old, he admits to having spent too much time listening to others’ opinions and not honouring his own beliefs, leading him to tell himself negative stories that undermined his purpose. These false narratives resulted in self-doubt, physical illness, and mental exhaustion.

Des describes how he mistakenly believed that his professional life was over and that he should retreat to make way for the younger generation—a lie he now recognises. Despite his significant achievements, including starting successful businesses, winning national awards, authoring books, and being a devoted father and grandfather, he felt compelled to step back due to societal expectations.

A turning point came when he broke down during a public speaking event, realising that his inner spirit was in conflict with the false stories he had been telling himself. Inspired by reading “Atomic Habits” by James Clear, Des took responsibility for his actions and acknowledged that he had given away his identity. A week of solitude and reflection in Bali helped him reconnect with his purpose.

Des emphasises that helping others has no expiration date and challenges listeners to question whether they are accepting untruths or striving to make things better. He encourages everyone to affirm, “I am enough,” and to recognise their value in the ongoing “jigsaw of life.” His message is a call to embrace one’s true self and continue contributing meaningfully, regardless of age or external opinions.

Des Penny

Co-CEO - Founder / Director Innovation, Growth & Strategy / Director of North East Region - Proteus Leadership